Okay I heard this quote and to tell you the truth I was shocked at first.. Was like WTF??? I was informed that this was the translation of a Russian quote.. I was of course repulsed at first.. How this can be?? But once the first repulsiveness is gone you will find that it completely make sense.
This is not strictly about being sexually attached it is about any situation you find yourself forced into. You are in it and there is nothing you can do about it. You will survive through it and that is that. So when you find yourself there the smart way to think is to find a silver lining in the entire thing. Something that will benefit you from it and hence I believe the quote “What does not kill you makes you stronger” came, same attitude.
The quote is repulsive cause it takes rape which is against the most simple right a human being have which is the right to say “NO” when someone think that people sometimes are deprived from that it shocks the hell out of them and leave the person in the incident feeling venerable, weak, and disgusted from the fact that they were deprived from their basic right.
However, what if we adapted this attitude in our lives I think it will make a difference, don’t you think??
posted by Sarah
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Put like this: take the worst situation and make something good of it, it might make sense.
Yet this particulary choice, rape, does not allow you to get to this conclusion. Simply because there is no way of enjoying it and it's something that messes your life permanently (it takes tens of years for victims to get partially over it). But indeed, one should try to make the best of it, something like thanking God you were not killed afterwards.
Alina:
Yeah you are right but I guess they chose this choice cause of how horrific it sounds which is the worse of all.
by the way It is nice to be here again..
Yup, nice to see you to! Made you admin again, in case you have not noticed :)The command is yours! :D